How did you know you were gay or when did you find out? Because I'm having some confusion and it's really stressing me out. I love this and the artdecade blog its really cute and um... hot, yet I can see myself dating a girl and not a guy?? help please
not sure if i’m the best to answer this but; i think that labels can be helpful things, but imo don’t really worry about figuring out which one suits you, just follow your preferences on a more case by case scale. like, if you’re a guy and you’re into some cute dude and you’re worried like “but i’m straight i shouldn’t like this” then the label has become unhelpful and is just getting in the way of a natural inclination. the purpose of labels is not to define you/your actions/your preferences on a strict and complete level, they’re to ease communication by representing broad ideas quickly, and so they inherently lack nuance or exception. just enjoy the stuff you like!
Yesterday, Rowsby’s auction reached its reserve bid, so he’s as good as sold (hopefully). I’m stewing in a tasty bittersweet broth surrounded by morsels of nostalgia, glee, pride, regret, inspiration, self-fascination (srsly how good does my butt look when it’s Rowsby’s…
“Another myth that is firmly upheld is that disabled people are dependent and non-disabled people are independent. No one is actually independent. This is a myth perpetuated by disablism and driven by capitalism - we are all actually interdependent. Chances are, disabled or not, you don’t grow all of your food. Chances are, you didn’t build the car, bike, wheelchair, subway, shoes, or bus that transports you. Chances are you didn’t construct your home. Chances are you didn’t sew your clothing (or make the fabric and thread used to sew it). The difference between the needs that many disabled people have and the needs of people who are not labelled as disabled is that non-disabled people have had their dependencies normalized. The world has been built to accommodate certain needs and call the people who need those things independent, while other needs are considered exceptional. Each of us relies on others every day. We all rely on one another for support, resources, and to meet our needs. We are all interdependent. This interdependence is not weakness; rather, it is a part of our humanity.”—A J Withers (via glorifytheordinary)